For siblings Kubbra Sait and Danish Sait, Raksha Bandhan celebration weren’t the standard whereas rising up. Interestingly, their mom, Yasmin Sait made them tie rakhi to one another with a promise that they’ll shield one another for all times.
“I think that was very cute,” says actor-host Kubbra as she narrates this fond reminiscence.
Danish — an actor, digital influencer, host and comic — provides, “Mom raised us to be watchful of each other’s back, while she has got mine and I’ve got hers and this would remain like this forever. We were raised as equals, as two human beings and never had that boy or girl sort of a thing.”
While they may not be tying rakhis to one another now, however as Danish places it, “We’re with each other in spirits… the days and occasion doesn’t matter. What we loved doing as kids might have changed, but every time we’re together during Raksha Bandhan, we hang out with each other over good food, sit on the couch and enjoy TV and talk about all things random.”
This yr, owing to the lockdown, the siblings gained’t be collectively on this special occasion. While Danish is in Bengaluru, Kubbra is stationed in Mumbai. In reality, they’ve missed celebrating their birthdays collectively as nicely.
Kubbra says that for them, it’s extra of the bond they share that they have fun somewhat than the pageant within the conventional sense. “Celebrating such occasions makes you happy, brings back memories, but when you grow up, life takes you in different directions. What matters the most is being there for each other throughout the year and not just for one day when he needs to be reminded to protect me or that I’m reminded I’ve a brother to take care of me,” she provides.
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Talking about this special occasion, she’s additionally reminded of that one time of their life when she most likely wasn’t the very best sister.
“It was one of those times when one gets consumed with work and start taking certain relationships for granted. I knew that he’ll call me when he needs and I’d do the same. And then one day, Dan actually told me, ‘You don’t do enough for me’. Sometimes you need to hear that to understand how you’ve behaved and what impact it had on someone’s life. I realised that when he told me things like, ‘You haven’t spoken to me enough, you don’t check on me enough, when was the last time you called and asked me if I was ok?’,” shares Kubbra, including that this dialog occurred about 5 years in the past.
Calling it a wake-up name, she admits that it modified the course of their relationship.
“I decided to do something every day. Staying apart, we might not be able to meet up much but we do have communication today which is electronics and we try to make the most of it, whether just a random talk, or what our cats have done, to what’s the best thing happened to us and what broke us,” she ends.